Day Three
Hundred and Forty-Four: Things To Know
Before You Stay
While
parousing tumblr on a “study break” I found this honest post that had a bunch
of notes and it was just a list of things people should know before they
“stay,” and I think it was meant for a romantic relationship but sometimes I
think that just people who are getting to know me and want to be my friend
should know some things. These are
things I would want to know about anyone else, too.
-I am very
stubborn and really like to get my way, but I can compromise if willed to.
-I don’t
really like dressing up for Halloween but I’ll carve pumpkins!
-I’d prefer
a tea or coffee date over doing just
about anything else. I have friendships
solely based on the amount of refills we have of our tea when together.
-I
Sometimes I don’t want to talk about what’s wrong, but if I do eventually I
just need someone to listen to me, I don’t need advice unless I ask for it.
-I don’t
like to be the only one contributing information/leading conversations, it’s
exhausting, put a little effort in.
-Lord of
the Rings drinking game is totally an acceptable drinking night.
-Alternatively
if we go to a bar and you haven’t had a Rocky Mountain Bear Fucker you are
going to have to try one, sorry about that, it’s just how it goes.
-I am
sometimes a wall of sound and could talk for an hour without stopping if let,
but if you want to say something I will listen, I’m just full of things to say,
always.
-And if I
don’t have anything to say don’t be offended, it means I like to listen to
you/just sit with you.
-I talk
about my siblings a lot, if you’ve never met them you will soon feel like you
know them well.
-I dig
music, I’m protective of the music I love, and am judgment of the things I
don’t like. I like to sign and dance and am an ADD on my itunes.
-I enjoy
being a student but complain about it a lot.
Learning is so cool, but I’d rather be challenged than bored.
-Yes I’m a
Blackberry and no I don’t want to fight about it.
-I have a
big sweet tooth but a sensitive tummy, so if you’ve made me cookies and I only
eat one or save them for another day I’ve probably already had my share of
sweeties today.
-I am
terrible at parties. I never know where
to be or who to talk to unless I specifically go with someone. The last few parties I’ve been to have been
not so great, and it all depends on what happens before or how I feel I’m
fitting in. If I don’t want to come to
your party I am sorry, it’s not because I don’t like you, it’s because it’s
more stressful for me if I do.
-I
sometimes think I am brilliant and other times think I’m the dumbest person
alive. It’s all relative.
This was
just a weird idea I had last night, looking back it is kind of still weird,
but, well, that’s just how it goes now I guess.
Thanks to all of the friends who make it worthwhile to leave the house.
x
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